Friday, July 20, 2018

Balls Deep Is For Pussies

If you're an inexperienced guy with a huge cock, This article is for you.

Going balls deep is like going on vacation. You don't live on vacation. You just visit there.
I'm not going to give you step by step instructions here on how to fit your cock in your girl. I've done that before, and I will write more about that in the future.

This article is to help you see, and understand, how a woman can enjoy depth.



We're going to demonstrate this, by watching a video of the incredibly wildly sexy Ginny Potter. (A girl I have a massively huge crush on btw). Ride this huge ass dildo, and build herself up, edging to an incredible orgasm.

For demonstration purposes, I have overlayed the size of the cock that she is accepting, to show the visualization of the depth. Because men, are visual, and like numbers, and in this video, you can see exactly how much cock she is accepting, and its a lot less than you would think. But there is absolutely no question, as to how much she is enjoying herself.

She has one of the most wild and intense orgasms I've ever seen, practically blowing the roof off the house with her screams, and she really only ends up taking about 6 inches of this dildo.

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Here is the video:





Watch in Higher Resolution Here:





Guys. There is a reason I spent the time to make this video with the overlay. And that is to educate you on depth.




You don't need to go balls deep to please a woman properly. In fact, if you're huge, going balls deep will probably just hurt her. Or. Perhaps, it will feel good, temporarily. But don't take my word for it.

Watch our wildly sexy Ginny demonstrate.



This video is important, heres why. She's not putting on a show, she's making love to that dildo, its just her and her camera and that huge ass dildo. There isn't the production and motive factor of a porn studio, its just our hottie here, riding her dildo, just the way she wants to. Building herself up, until she chooses to release it all when she is ready.

It's very deliberate.

Guys, please study this video.

Notice how she pleases herself.

But first, notice that before the video starts, she's already fucking turned on. She's literally dripping wet. Shes horny, shes "tented" already, and she's ready. Just notice how at the :23 second mark, she reaches down, touches her pussy gently, (doesn't even penetrate it) and tastes how juicy wet she is.. Homegirl is already there, and now shes going to use the next 10 mintes to put on a show, for herself, that she is sharing with us lucky folks.

Notice how for about 95% of the entire video, she is really only taking about 1/3 of the dick, maybe 1/2 of it. Only a few times, rarely, does she ease down, to really feel that stretch. Notice how she touches herself, her clit, her nipples, her facial expressions.

Guys. Please pay attention.

She never actually takes more than 3/4 of that cock. That cock is realistically somewherre between 8 and 9 inches.

At any point do you see her taking the whole thing? NO.

But here is what porn shows us:



This type of depth in this gif here, is just not pleasurable for a lot of women, most of the time.

Is it possible to go balls deep like that? Absolutely.

Is is possible to do that in a way she can truly enjoy it, and get off on it. HELL YES. I've done it, and I know how to do it. You have to get your girl to a point where she is sooooo fucking turned on, and soooo tented that she can readily accept your size. But that takes a lot of time to earn that depth.

Thats an advanced move, this is an article for the amateurs. So lets keep it more simple.

Back to the super hot Ginny.

Just look at how much she is enjoying herself at only 5" or penetration.

I hear guys with big cocks complain all the time about how their girl taps out, or is in pain.
Well... Did you try to go balls deep bro? If so, how long did you stay there? Was it a tease? Was it momentarily? Was it just to give her a little stretch, and then let her go back to a more comfortable depth? NO. We both know. You're like me, and you love going balls deep. Fuck it, I know. I understand too. I LOOOOOVE fucking deeeppp. I need it.

But most girls just cannot handle that. Even if warmed up properly. They also don't need that much length. So go easy on her, and I only say "go easy" because I know you fuckers are educating yourselves by watching shit like this:




This is not education, this is fetish, its novelty. 

Can sex life this gif here, be had? Absolutely, but again, thats advanced shit, you might need to spend hours to work up to that point where you can do that to her, WHILE SHE IS ENJOYING IT ALSO. Thats the challenge.

Sure you can choke and fuck balls deep anytime you want, but she won't enjoy it. 



We'll get there. If you try it before she's ready, the pain you give her might literally stop the entire thing. It certainly has for me before.

So we're going to focus on going slow, and making it pleasurable for her, so that the effect you have on her, leaves her wanting more, and more, like this:







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I'm writing this post, for the guys who don't know how to use their huge cocks. The guys who always end up "hurting" their chick, or she "taps out" too soon.

This is for the guys who really need some help, like ASAP. Now.

Sorry man, the bad news here is that the terrible sex you're having, thats not on her, thats on you.

Don't make fucking excuses. Don't blame her tiny vagina, don't make it anyons fault but yours. Own your responsibility here, and I'll show you the light. I got you bro.

I know this because I've been there, I struggled, I made my girlfriend bleed, made her cry, made her tap out, made her limp, I fucked her until she was in tears and I did all that shit. I didn't like fucking a girl who wasn't enjoying herself, I was 18 at the time, and then I educated myself, I found a way to make women squirm in a way I never thought possible. I'm here to share this knowledge to help you, because it took me years and years to figure it out.

In bed, it matters how SHE feels. How you feel... Well... Meh... That doesn't matter as much. Thats the focus, her. Remember that. Everything pivots around her pleasure. Not yours. Even the most experienced Daddy Dom will admit, that the woman is the one who holds 100% of the power, even if shes chained up and hes whipping her and commanding her to bend at his whim, even if he is calling all the shots, and acting like a boss, she is simply "letting" him act that way. Because it turns her on. When you truly boil it down, the sexually evolved, all know and accept that the woman is the one in control. And thank god for that.

If she is enjoying herself, then trust me, you will be enjoying yourself. But everything revolves around her, and her enjoyment. Always.



So now that you get that, let's move on.

If you're the type who looks at a woman like a wet hole to get off with or on. Then just leave now, and go away. This article isn't for the fucking idiot losers of the world. This is for those who respect women, and genuinely want a better sex life, and just so happen to have a huge cock that they don't know what to do with.

Watching porn in 2018, will teach you almost nothing about how to have mutually beneficial sex when you're endowed with 8+ inches below the belt. I can't speak for what its like to have 5". I don't know about that. But I can tell you, that porn is not the way to learn about mutually beneficial sex.

The sex that is had in most porn is not good. Its for entertainment. Remember that.

Most girls will seriously struggle taking 8". I didn't say struggle, I said SERIOUSLY struggle, as in, that size is so fucking rare in nature, that most women are simply not built for that. That doesn't mean you can't get her to a place where she can take 8", and cum all over 8", and enjoy 8". That IS possible. I can show you how. But this article is not about that.

This article is about teaching you how going balls deep in your chick, is not home base for you.

Going balls deep is like going on vacation. You don't live on vacation. You just visit there.

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Guys. trust me on this last part.

Even if you don't give a shit about how she feels or enjoys herself (obviously you're an ass, but lets talk anyways). If you take care of her needs, and you use your endowment to her benefit, you will literally not believe how much pleasure you can deliver, and the even better part, is that you won't believe just how willing she may be, to reward your behavior in return...


But that lesson is for the master class.


Thursday, July 19, 2018

We Back Bitches!

Some of you may have noticed that I took this blog down a few years ago.

But guess what y'all. WE BACK!



At the time, I was in a relationship that was slowly falling apart, and eventually did become quite toxic. I was confronting some of my own issues I had with flirting and seeking attention, (even saw a sex therapist in addition to my regular therapist) and then with this site I was receiving all sorts of attention from men asking me to fuck their wives (which I wasn't really in a place to try at the time, but now... is a different story), and this site was having a bit of a negative impact on me and so I opted to temporarily take it down.

I'm sorry.

That was a really dumb decision. Making decisions out of fear is just a bad place to be in general.

Since then, I've received so much positive support from people messaging me, and encouraging me to bring it back. Today, I'm happy to report that we're back. 

This weird little corner of the web is where I share my personal advice on how to have better sex, more mutually enjoyable sex, when the man is well endowed. I also like to share sexy memories, and maybe a little erotic story here and there. 

I've done a lot of growth over the last few years, and I'm really starting to become the man who I knew I was supposed to be. It feels right. I'm really starting to be honest with myself and love myself for exactly who I am, today. 

I still choose to keep my identity anonymous. No one who knows me in real life, knows that this site exists.

For now, I'm going to keep it that way, and here's why. I write about whatever the fuck I want. I write about people I'm fucking, about exes, about girlfriends, about it all. I can protect my own identity as well as the identity of any of my partners safe, and protect their privacy, but not sharing my identity. In a way, its a lot like why batman wears a mask. Soooo basically. I'm batman. bat.. dick.. man? Cockman? BatCock? Hmmm... 


How about I just stick with LargeInLife.

But where's my Harley Quinn when I need her...

So I'm back, and this site is here to be a sexy fun and helpful resource to you out there, who suffered like I did. Because even today, in 2018, the advice out there for how to have good sex with a big dick, is FUCKING HORRIBLE. I can't believe how bad the advice is still... Hello... "go slow, and use lube" is just not enough help for most of us with this problem.

Like this video:



I can't stand this. The big dick guest asks for help, and they mostly just talk about him like a novelty, and give him zero practical advice. Telling a guy "go slow" is just not enough.

Videos like this aren't actually meant to help anyone, its just a novelty, and they creators only made this video to have a provocative subject to get more views with (in my opinion). They treat this guy like hes a carnival show, and don't ever even say anything helpful...

To sum up that video, here is the abridged version of that advice they said to him."don't fuck hard", " use lube", "date tall girls, not short girls", "go slow", "ask her how she feels", "have her suck your dick until you're close, then bust in her pussy", "don't thrust hard", "read cosmo for sex advice"

Are you kidding me?

I'm not trying to be a hater, in fact, I'd love to help. This is just a video I came across the other day, and it made me realize, fuck man... Maybe I should bring the blog back... I would love to be a guest on that show to offer something actually helpful for them to use. So if those guys ever read this post, find me, and let's put something out there that is actually helpful to people.


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Anyways... I'm back bitches!

And I'm fucking happy to be back too. So I can share advice, and sexy things that turn me on like this:


So as a treat for those of you who are still reading this post, and still check in to this site from time to time. Here is a little reminder of my qualifications. Just in case you forgot!


Get ready to see my dick!!!


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Thursday, April 16, 2015

The New Average Penis Size

I just measured my dick again.

Big surprise right? Haha.

This new article came out, it announces the new "average" penis size is 5.16 inches in length and 4.59 inches in girth. According to Average Penis Size Study Shows 'Normal' Isn't Necessarily What You Thought 

Naturally I did what all men do, I compared myself to this average. I measured it when I was completely flaccid, unaroused, and at normal body temp (I wasn't cold or fresh out of the pool). What I found was the my penis was five and a half inches long, and four and a half inches in girth.

So I was shocked to find that my flaccid unaroused penis is bigger than the average man's is soft. Kind of a confidence boost for me. I then compared my erect length to this news on thevisualiser.net and I was even more shocked. 

Obviously I had to make my own version with an existing photo;

It took my a long time to realize that my dick was actually quite big. I'm just a big guy all over, big hands, big thighs, tall, broad, etc. So I didn't think I was well endowed until after I was already having sex and my ex helped me understand that I was definitely not average.

Here's why this information matters. For starters, look at those photos above. Notice just how much bigger I am in comparison, the reason this is important, is because well endowed men need to realize that they need to go gentle on their women. The men with large dicks need to be reminded to go slow, and to warm her up.

Seeing the comparison is important. Because odds are, as a straight man, it's not very likely that I'm going to be in a situation where I get to compare my erect cock to another mans erect cock. But it's important to see the comparison, because the well endowed men need to realize that a big dick, can be intimidating to women, it can be painful, and it can be a lot to handle for women.

Seriously, gentleman, just imagine you had to have that average sized dick shoved up your ass. Ok, maybe that's a little bit of a strange thought to imagine. But just go with me on that. So you have to have that average sized dick shoved into your ass. It's gonna be weird, but you're probably gonna be able to handle it and live to tell the tale.

Now look at the other picture of the big dick, and imagine you had to take that thing. Just thinking about it made me clench and shrivel up slightly. It's intimidating as hell when you think about  it like that. Really it is.

The only reason I bring this up, is that you need to remind yourselves as well endowed men, that a big penis, is a lot to handle, its a big change, it's NOT the normal thing for women. My dick is literally 2.7 times the size of the average mans by volume. That's just wild to think about. Yes it's extremely confidence boosting at the same time, but its a lot for a woman to handle. My girlfriend told me that every time we have sex she feels like a virgin all over again. I just laughed, but really, I should have been more sensitive to her.

I think that as men, we see porn, and we become desensitized to how common a big dick actually is. and our perception of what is normal is not normal at all. For the longest time I thought I was normal, and I'm almost 3 times bigger than normal.

For you guys out there with an eight inch dick, you need to understand that it is not "average for being well endowed". Because a lot of you might think, "Yea I'm big, but I'm not the biggest" or you might think "Yea I'm in the above average category, but I'm average for being above average" and I'm here to tell you that you're wrong. You're fucking huge. 

If we put on our statistical analysis hats. Any room I walk into, there is "essentially" no other man who will ever have a larger penis than me. Statistically speaking, if you were to take every single person that I've ever met in my entire life, I've never met a man with a larger penis than I have.

The reason this is important to understand guys, is that you have a bit of a responsibility when you have a big penis. You need to realize that it's not a small deal, it's a big deal. Women are used to "Normal" normal is literally half of the size of you. 

What does this mean?

This means you need to be fucking considerate. You need to be gentle. You need to be patient. You need to use your size to your advantage, and NOT HURT HER with your dick. Don't read my article and walk around like an asshole now that you realize your dick is huge. Take my advice and the next time you have sex, you need to be extra considerate because you're shoving a huge dick into a pussy that is used to half of you.

Secondly. I know that not all men reading this article are well endowed. To those guys, you should realize that you are a lot bigger than you think you are. You might have a 5 inch dick, and feel like you're inadequate, and I'm here to tell you that you are not. In fact, you are well equipped to make virtually any woman cum a dozen times a night with your 5 inches. It's literally not essential to have a big dick to please a woman. Some women love big dicks,the sensation of being stretched, and the pressure and the fullness and some don't, and that ok. I suggest that if you find yourself with a woman who demands to be stretched out, then leave her alone. She's not normal, you're not inadequate, you are perfectly adequate, she is the one who is not normal.

Now take that women, and send her my way. haha. 

But in all seriousness, having a 5 inch dick is NOT SMALL. It's not tiny. So STOP acting like it is. Being insecure is the least attractive thing you can possibly do. So cut it out. You're wasting your life if you are not able to appreciate that your penis is perfect just the way it is.

Now if you are a man who has 3 inches or less. Then you are in a different situation. You are small, and that is not reason to feel ashamed. All it means is that your penis is smaller than average. It doesn't mean you can't satisfy a woman. It doesn't mean you aren't as manly as a well endowed man. It doesn't mean that you're worth less, or worthless. All it means is that you're smaller than average. It means that you should accept it, and keep pushing on in life. If a woman calls you small and attempts to hurt your feelings. Tell her you don't appreciate her judging you, and that her words are hurtful, and simply walk away from that bitch. There are millions of women who will love and accept you exactly the way you are, and the great majority of women do not care if your penis is smaller than average. It's true. So play Jay-Z's "on to the next one" and find a better woman who will be a better match for you.



Friday, April 10, 2015

My Pink Cock

Taken in the morning light... Strong and pink.

That Day She Measured My Cock + Road Head + Magnums + #teamstrokeaftermath

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